A wedding homily
Lex & Deanna – A Wedding Homily
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On Servant Leadership
A while back I had been on the kids about picking up after themselves, so when one of my daughters left her snack trash and cup lying on the table, I called her back in to clean up and remonstrated, “You are responsible for cleaning up after yourself; I am not your servant”. Upon which … Continue reading On Servant Leadership
To Katie: 15 Years of Marriage & Consolation Disappointments
I tried to figure out what the 15 year anniversary symbol is, but I came up with everything from crystal to rubies to watches to “anything red”. So I have decided to add my own, which is “Consolation Disappointments”. Now this takes a little unpacking, but I’m hopeful that by the time you read to the … Continue reading To Katie: 15 Years of Marriage & Consolation Disappointments
Should Women Serve in Combat? Part 2
Part 2 of a biblical take on women serving in combat.
Should You Write Your Own Wedding Vows?
First, let me congratulate you on getting married. It really is the thing that grown-ups do. To be a husband or a wife is more than being a “partner”: it’s entering into a covenant relationship whereby you submit your own personal feelings, happiness, and choices to this greater commitment that you have made. And should … Continue reading Should You Write Your Own Wedding Vows?
Maintaining Marital Fidelity: The Danger of Gaps
It was pretty early on in our marriage-before kids anyway-when we got into a bit of a kerfuffle at church. There's something extra terrible about getting into a kerfuffle at church, especially when you're the pastor and your job is to stand up and declare the eternal glories of Christ. I'm sure it was hard … Continue reading Maintaining Marital Fidelity: The Danger of Gaps
I Love Your Body
On a warm Spring day, you laid a blanket on the grass and met me with a picnic basket on my lunch break. There, in front of our first house, you told me that we were expecting our first child. When summer had faded into Fall and and Fall had frozen over into winter, I … Continue reading I Love Your Body
To the Love of My Life on our 10th Wedding Anniversary
Meditations on my 10th wedding anniversary.
Nathan Writes 